"The Science of Sexuality"

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Greta Christina has an interesting, if somewhat pointless, post on science and sexuality over at Alternet.
When I first came out into the gay community, one of the most common party lines going around was, "Gay parents aren't any more likely to have gay kids than straight parents." Some of the big political battles being fought at the time had to do with gay parenting, and the community was trying to reassure/ convince the straight world that it was "safe" for gay people to have and raise kids, that our kids wouldn't be any more likely to be gay than anyone else's. (Of course, many of us personally thought, "So what if our kids turn out gay? There's nothing wrong with being gay, so why does it matter?" But we knew the straight world didn't feel that way. Hence, the line.) --Read more
As I responded in the comments section on Alternet: I have a few ideas myself about what causes sexuality, but I don't know, and personally, I hope they never do find out for sure. Because the minute they do, the battles will begin afresh over what to do with that information.

If there is a significant genetic factor that can be detected in utero, should a woman carrying an unwanted "queer" fetus be allowed/encouraged to have an abortion?

If it turns out to be primarily a "choice," does that make anti-gay sentiment and activities more socially acceptable?

If it turns out to be primarily genetic, will the haters feel any more compassion for queers as a result?

The whole discussion begs the even more important Big Question: What difference does it make?

I can't see one that matters much. What does matter is that all Americans be treated exactly the same, both under the law and in the larger society as well, regardless of sexual orientation or anything else.

If knowing the "answer" to the causes of sexuality contributes anything toward that end, I don't begrudge the money and energy spent finding it. But personally, I doubt it, and believe that both could be better spent.

Whether I'm queer because I chose to be, or because of genes I carry, I expect to be treated the same as anyone else.

Anything else is un-American.

Larry King Promotes Day of Silence

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Today is the National Day of Silence, a day when hundreds of thousands of students across America pledge to be silent for the day, representing the silence forced upon their lesbian, gay, or transgendered friends by the rampant homophobia and hectoring on the majority of school campuses. Below is a statement from Larry King:


(h/t HRC Back Story)

Why Conservatives Are Always Wrong

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Jefferson Smith has posted a wonderful piece entitled "Why Conservatives Are Always Wrong" that should be required reading at least once a week for every human being on earth. Please read the whole thing and pass it on to everybody you can think of.

Suppose you had a friend you had known for many years, one who was very opinionated, who always seemed absolutely certain about everything, and yet who was always turning out to be wrong. He got you to buy stock in Enron and swore it would just keep on rising. He bet on the Yankees to sweep the Red Sox in ’04. He said mobile phones were just a fad . . .


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O'Reilly/Fox Homophobia

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